Perhaps more appropriate to the topic, here I am, lurking in the lush and exotic fringes somewhat hidden with a lady lover (me on the left, S. on the right, at her home in Hawaii). Sensuality and eroticism, and appreciation of the attractiveness of both genders, have been part of my life since my early adolescence, though something that since my girls' school days that I've been hesitant to reveal.  In my teens, I thought it was what you might now call androgynousness, a sort of philosophical equal attitude towards both sexes, as I didn't really know about bisexuality at the time. But I had never really shared my sensual and erotic nature intimately with anyone until after college, having waited unfruitfully for "Mr. Right", and been left wondering why my most enticing propositions had come from women.  I finally got tired of waiting for a wonderful man, figuring I should go ahead and experience more of life, and low and behold it turned out to be a wonderful girlfriend with whom I fell in love and first shared my erotic side.  In the ensuing years I kept up my search for "Mr. Right" and found romance and eroticism with several men, but had quite a few more female lovers cross my path as well.

Around 1990, after the breakup of a long-term live-in relationship with a man that had followed several brief affairs with women, I decided maybe I was making a fundmental mistake in expecting "Mr. Right" to ever show up, and placed the following ad in the "Women Seeking Women" personals section of the "alternative" weekly magazine in a large city I lived near:

To make a long story short (though you might get me to tell you the entirety later), a woman answered who made me feel things from the emotional to the sensual that no man ever had, and I'm now a late-30s bi lady who's been entirely into my lesbian side ever since, though I still fundamentally identify as bi. .
 

I particularly love turning on "straight" and "curious" women to the joys of living a richly - if clandestinely - erotic life through things like piercing and unusual toys, and making love to other women; and also sharing experiences and resources with other bi and lesbian women. To this end, I've created an Erotica Resources Page to help you find everything from the best in videos and toys to practical silk undergarments. If you wish, I can also share pictures that show some of my favorite private activities, and bits and pieces of me; plus writings about some of my favorite (including my first) encounters with women. Due to ISP content policies and my own concerns about putting steamy material on the 'net, I can't put my most erotic photos or writings on a public web page. But I have located some private space on the internet, and can send files individually, so if you are interested you are welcome to write me personally, and perhaps visit my Inner Sanctum...

I've also had some particularly rewarding personal exchanges with bi women, and women curious about or coming to grips with their attraction to other women. For some of them, my pages and the stories of how I became involved with other women have apparently been informative and useful. I really enjoy hearing from women who are dealing with these issues and interests in their lives, and hope in the future to create a web page to offer some useful advice and information.  I'd also like to correspond and exchange materials with other women who are interested in true woman-oriented erotica whether it be written, still or moving images; and whether it be soft or hardcore.  So if you're please write me with your interests and I'll tell you where to find out more about me and the things I like.