For each item, you need to provide two answers.Type a YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity. Put a question mark if you are not
sure what the activity is.
Then, indicate for each item how you FEEL about that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5.
NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would be willing to do it to please the Dominant
if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a "soft limit").
1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you.
2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/occasional basis.
4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.
Note any additional information that might be important for Me to know.
There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the sub (you) is the recipient of the activity. Be aware that I
do NOT practice all of these activities, I am just trying to get a general feel for what the sub knows and feels about BDSM.
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