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For those of you that have been bumping around my website and looked onto my bio page, you may have noticed that not only do I like fellas, but I like fillies as well. "Oh, my goodness - Yank that boy's gay card away from him!"
For those of you who are gay and may be a little bit more open minded because you realize that the phrase that detractors use on you "You're confused." "It's a sin." "That doesn't exist." "I don't believe…" or any of the others that are kicking around out there are just as wrong for you to apply to us as it is for them to be applied to you read on.
I'm not trying to say that I speak for the whole entire bi community by what I've written below. I am just speaking for myself, and hoping to clear up some of the questions that I so often get asked when I raise the eyebrows of the gay community by making the statement of who I am.
I have always been the kind of guy that's really attracted to the individual more so than the physical. The individual, the who you are on the inside, is what really does it for me. A lot of the men and women that I have been attracted to; the reasons that I just can't get them out of my head, have been based on the little intricacies that make up the web of who they are as a person, not just how they look as a person. That's what really gets my juices flowing. I'm sure in your time you've met those kind of people that by outward appearance look just like the kind of individual that you would want to be with, whatever your ideal may be. Then, as you get to know what's behind the "look" that turns you on, and it turns out to be something that rubs you the way of steel wool you think to yourself, "Oh, no. This just isn't going to work, pal." I'm much the same way. I can't be with you unless you turn me on both by your outward appearance and the internal of who you are.
I like men for being men and women for being women. They both have their individual shape and feel that's part of who they are as a sex. I like a man for being a good-built, roughed up looking kinda guy. I like a woman for being a soft smooth and feeling like silk to the touch. A natural beauty is what I like. If you need help to be handsome or pretty by make up, tucks, lifts, steroids or anything else artificial, than you aren't attractive to me. I like my woman to be curvy and look like they are a healthy eater. I don't like them to be sticks, and I don't like my men that way either. I don't like a soft man and don't like a hard woman. And I like neither to be out of shape.
Now, I don't run around with men and woman at the same time; that's just something that I don't do. Mainly, because I don't feel the need. I have had many a person tell me, "well don't you miss...?" No, I don't. I like hairy chested men with facial hair as a general rule, but when I meet a fellow who's what I want on the inside, a countryfied kinda fella who's in nice shape and who's got a clean shaven face and a smooth body, I don't find myself missing the hairiness. I like anything other than blond women. Brunetts do it for me. Redheads are especially attractive. If you're a red-headed gal, you'll probably have me following you around all night long. But if you’re a red-headed bitch, I'll leave you faster than the road runner leaves Wile E. Coyote. And if you’re a blond lady with a heart that's as golden as your hair, I'm not going to miss that brunettness one bit.
Now, I know that men and women are different in that men have dicks and women don't and that's what most people are talking about when they ask me all these kinds of questions, but I also think that because I am a top and do not have a real interest in becoming a bottom that that also is a big factor in me not having a desire for the other. And also, for me, my physical attraction to someone is something outside the genitals. I like chests and backs and butts much more than is it is dick or pussy that I'm looking at. That's is low on the list of what turns my head.
Who do I date more right now, men or women? Men - mainly because that's who I'm around. The gay bar, gay country western bar, is about 10 blocks away from me. Just a bit over a mile away. I meet a lot of gay men, so that's who I date. When I was in college and High School, I dated women more because they were there and gay men weren't.
If I moved away to a town where I didn't have a pardner and the only thing around was a straight country western gay bar, I'd be going there and dating women.
Do I still date women? Yes, on the occasion that I happen to find one that turns my head and I happen to be unattached at the time. Same with fellas.
Now, I'll be honest with you and tell you that when I first moved here, I just went nuts about sleeping with every guy that I found half-way attractive, but now…Nope. You gotta be all the way attractive to me to enter into my bedroom. It's the same reasoning that I've use on fillies after I got out of high school and my first year in college, just took a bit longer for me to apply it to the fellas.
Which do I want to build my life with? Either. I just want to build my life with the kind of person who can turn me on head, heart and hands. If you can't do that, that I can't be with you.
In short, I'm a country guy and date country people and you find them in the courntry places: bars, county fairs, George Jones concerts, rodeos, farms and ranches; men or women doesn't matter 'cuz country is what I like. I have no interested in Ambercrombe and Fitch type fellas or Ballet going debutantes. That's just ain't who I am. I'm country, that's all I ever be, don't want to change, don't have a desire to change and never will change.
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