Who am I

Just The Facts

Name: Charles Frederick McAvoy
Date of Birth: August 6th, 1965 (that makes me a leo)
Stats: 5'9", 120 pounds (slim but not too skinny)
Hair/Eyes: Hazel eyes and brown (graying) hair.
Relationship Status: SINGLE and looking
Employment: I presently work for CopyMax
Religion: Wicca (solitary ecletic, ordained minister)
Tattoo: It is of a sun (look close.)
Currently Resides: Tempe, AZ (Home of the Sun Devils)
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So it seems every body want to know a little more about yours truely, including what I look for in a person.

Well, I was born in California, 6 weeks early, hence the small build and almost anerexic appearence. I was raised on Ohio, Arizona and Georgia. My family was split several different times and my memory of my childhood is very sparce. In my teen years I discovered I was gay, doing my best to make up for all the love I had lost in my youth.

I was raised by a mother who was absent at best. She was loving but unable to be there when I was younger. She was new age, so when I was at the age of rebellion I turned to Christianity where I stayed for several years becoming a Deacon for MCC and attending a seminary. This is when I met Ric, he was the man of my life... we met on a BBS and finally met in person at a Gay pride event in Tucson AZ, it was love at first sight. Well to make a long story short we moved to Las Vegas and he was taken from me by a drunk driver. I have not been with anyone in a stable relationship since. We were together about 7 years.

Now I am in my 30s, I work for CopyMax and find that being a solitary witch can be very lonely. So I started this site, to meet other Gay & Lesbian Pagans, I don't want to be solitary but I also do not want to conform to the hetrosexual circles that would force me to work with a partner of the opposite sex, if they allowed me in at all. I have become an ordained minister of the Wiccan religion so that I might start a church someday that will allow people to practice and worship as they feel led by the Lord and Lady.

I guess that is the ultimate question... I want a partner who is spiritual and loving, it is my oppinion that you must have faith in something or life becomes dull and not worth living, so one who shares my path would be prefered but it is not essential. The person should be small built, this is not a physical attraction just common sense heck I am 110 - 120 pounds with a 25" waist.. They should be willing to accept that I am a whole person with or without them as they are without me. So that is about it for my wants for another, and let me tell you I am tired of being alone, I thank the Lord and Lady that they are at least here for me, otherwise Goddess only knows what I would do for sanity.

So there you have it folks, I am not rich nor am I poor. I have my soap boxes, namely Gay Youth and Gay Pagans... and I have my bad habits, I smoke and I need somebody to help me stay out of debt. But I am me, and very proud to say I have made it this far, but one can only grow so far without his/her soul partner, so now I seek inward and outward for that person.