| people have read this page since November 1998. |
Sexual contact in itself is meant to be a fun thing, not a dirty thing. It can be a way of expressing affection towards another.
Our sexuality can be a result of either a genetic predisposition, or an incorrect belief. If it is due to an incorrect belief, we will be on a course to lesson learning. Our sex drive is a powerful force, it therefore takes a lot of will power to suppress, which feeds the incorrect belief and empowers it to cause harm to us and those around us. Various types of people can be affected;
Regarding the first three situations; denying your true self, feeds an incorrect belief that festers in our mind. The result of having a lack of self love can cause blockages in the heart arteries, and subsequently premature death.
The incorrect belief may be as a result of being sexually molested as a child, even though you have no such memory (see Psychic Therapy: Sexual Abuse).
There is a natural balance, as small percentage for people are genetically homosexual, we are not under any threat of loosing our species through the social acceptance of homosexuality.
Due to social conditioning a genetically homosexual individual (not realizing their sexual predisposition) can seek a companion of the opposite sex, marry, and have children to conform to social norms (believing homosexuality is not an acceptable behavior). However, they will eventually come to realize that they are not well matched, and loose interest in the relationship, avoiding contact with their partner through hobbies and other pursuits. Unfortunately in fighting their natural state they may also have a deep hatred for homosexual behavior, blaming the influence for their troubles.
If the couple have children, it is likely that a percentage will also be homosexual, since it is a genetic predisposition. As their homosexual child grows, the homophobic parent will encourage them feel guilty about their natural make-up, especially as they explore their sexuality during their teenage years. This gives them incorrect beliefs about their normality, and the resulting incorrect belief can grow strong causing depression, even suicide. They may fight their predisposition just like their parent and continue the unhappy cycle of denial, which may have started with their great grandfather or even further back.
It is therefore essential for the general happiness within the community to remove homosexual intolerance and thus discourage the union of incompatible partners, as the cost to both the parent's and their subsequent children's happiness is high.
For more see Why It's OK to be Gay.
Regarding masturbation, anal intercourse, fetishes etc.; if it doesn't hurt anyone (physically or emotionally), and you enjoy it, it's positive. Your intentions and beliefs are what are important. If we believe that something that is positive is 'wrong' (due to negative conditioning), then we have a problem. If in doubt, ask an imaginary sex therapist or your god (see Be your Own Psychic)..
The experience of having sex with someone, is a way of expressing a oneness with, and a deep love towards another person. Masturbation, one night stands, prostitution etc. do not involve the reciprocal love of two people. They are therefore not as fulfilling, and if they are your only form of sexual pleasure over a long period, you may have a incorrect belief associated with love (generating a fear of rejection etc.). This needs to be corrected, to promote your quest for deep love (see Discovering your True Self).
We also need to consider the consequences of our actions, protecting ourselves from disease and/or an unwanted pregnancy (e.g. using condoms).
We all benefit from medicine, contraception, and technology, this is how we have risen above mere survival, and the natural order. We have gained power through our discoveries, which can be used for either good or bad. When we consider moral questions, we need to keep this in mind. The 'natural' solution is not necessarily the best one.
| people have read this page since November 1998. |