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Have you ever wished that you could remain Calm and Serene in chaotic situations? You can learn to be serene by choosing to change your thinking to positive thoughts.

This SERENITY NOTEBOOK gives some ideas about how I learned to be calm, serene and have peace of mind.

The SERENITY RESOURCE PAGE has links to many other ideas about how to achieve Serenity, Spirituality, Visualization, Meditation and learning to think positively.

The SERENITY BULLETIN BOARD is for sharing positive thoughts for finding serenity.

The following common sense approach based on seven and one half decades of learning and experience works for me.


ACHIEVING SERENITY

SERENITY
is defined by
WEBSTER'S DICTIONARY
of the American Language,
1989 edition;
CLEAR
UNCLOUDED
UNDISTURBED
CALM


SYNONYMS for SERENE
described by
ROGET'S THESAURUS,
1989 edition
COMPOSURE
CONTENT
SATISFIED
PEACE OF MIND
MENTAL CALMNESS
How does one maintain a peaceful state of mind in today's hectic, fast paced, cyberworld? I don't claim to have the answer but I think that a serene state of mind is the result of a healthy balance of the brain activity between both of it's hemispheres.

I also believe that a lot of one's behavior is the result of the way one thinks and furthermore that thinking habits can be re-learned.

Let us look at some of the areas of thinking/ behavior that been attributed to the two hemispheres of the brain and which I prefer to think of as our different personalities.
HEMISPHERES OF THE BRAIN
LEFT PERSONALITY RIGHT PERSONALITY
DOMINANT PERSONALITY SUB DOMINANT PERSONALITY
RIGHT SIDE/RIGHT HAND LEFT SIDE/LEFT HAND
LANGUAGE ART
FACTS FEELINGS
VERBAL VISUAL
ADULT CHILD
INTELLECT INTUITION
CONSCIENCE I DON'T CARE
CONTROL IMPULSE

My generation is well endowed with the attributes of the left  personality. We know about the work-ethic, keeping a stiff upper lip, the no-no's, etc., all of which do give a strong sense of doing the right thing.

However, many wish to achieve a better balance between their personalities and thus become more creative/more serene. I have found several approaches that you may find helpful. Among some of these are:

SPIRITUALITY


One of my daughters is a firm believer of prayer and she uses her creative talents to write poetry. This poem is one of my favorites and illustrates how she achieves serenity through prayer.

IN PRAYER

Hush, little one, and hear your thoughts Listen with all your heart. And dream of Me and hear My voice And the wisdom I'll impart. Be still now for just a moment, Until your silence becomes a prayer. You'll know as your prayers are answered That it is you for whom I care. Through prayers, then, you will learn to believe And feel safe and sound and secure. With faith in Me to give you strength And help you to forever endure. Now the fruit of your faith, for trusting in Me, Will be a gift of unconditional love, And the love that you feel won't be contained But will rise to the heaven above. You'll have such joy and energy, Too much to be kept deep inside, So you give a piece of yourself to others And serve with love instead of pride. Without fanfare you'll give service. And give freely to oblige no one's debt. Then the fruit of your service is peace. And in peace there is no regret. So hush, little one, and hear your thoughts Then share your prayers with Me. With faith you'll find love, then give unto others Until your soul finds serenity. If you are led by this loving Spirit Then you need follow no other law For the fruits of all your labors Will flourish with might and awe. Your spirit will bring forth love and joy, Peace, and patience, and kindness too, Self-control and goodness and gentleness, And a faithfulness that is so true. So hear My words of wisdom As you quietly begin each day. And I will give you all you need For now you've learned to pray. Bonnie St. Jean 10-1-97


MEDITATION


MEDITATION is a useful tool that helps to quiet a negative personality and to relay positive messages through the right personality or if you prefer, the right hemisphere. It is safe, healthy and non- denominational.

MEDITATION costs only a small amount of your time in a quiet atmosphere where YOU (not your left personality) control your inner-most thoughts.

The REWARDS OF MEDITATION are:
Relaxation and Relief from Stress
Clarifying Your Goals
Prioritizing Your Needs
Focusing Your Energies
A more POSITIVE and SERENE Life Style


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