Being Gay

Note that these were all posted in early 2002. I may not tell these stories the same way, but I also think it's an injustice to modify them over time (who I was then is just as important as who I am now). So, I'm leaving it for now. Perhaps with time I will add adendums, but not right now. :)

Coming Out -- Everyone's coming out story is different. This is mine.

It's Effect -- This is about the effect my coming out had on my life.

Year of Growth -- The first year after coming out was a rough one. But I've grown a lot, and this tells you about it.

Books -- Good books on the subject (ones I've read at least)

Sex -- Some people think being gay is all about sex and you've got to have it as soon as you come out. Here are my thoughts on this general issue.