Rob and me

Me and Rob

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When two PEOPLE get together there is a lot to share... ideas, ideals, dreams, and past experience.

When two BONDAGE PEOPLE get together there is all that plus GEAR!

i was over at Rob's place when the subject of bondage came up. i had been toting two pairs of handcuffs around in my purse ever since the picnic so i showed him the handcuffs i had with me - a matched set of 'Valor' handcuffs. A little on the slim side, but made of stainless steel with a medium polish, very nice.

Rob told me about some of his gear and i talked him into showing it to me. While i think that handcuffs and chains are the zenith of Bondage wear, Rob goes all out for rubber and latex. He has an extensive collection of rubber straps, hoods, and gags. He pulled it all out on the floor for me to see and i was getting all giggley. i noticed that Rob had a bulge in his pants which he tried to hide by excusing himself to the bathroom.

We are still getting cool spells around here and i couldn't tell you what the weather was like outside that day, but i figured it was hot enough inside for me to get down to my undies while Rob was in the bathroom. When he came out i was playing in all of his gear - i hadn't put any on though. The hard part, for me, with Rob is to remember that he wants to be tied up as much as i do. What i had pictured in my mind was Rob seeing me half undressed and playing like a good little slave in all the bondage gear around me. What he probably had in his mind was his Dominatrix playing in the gear and trying to decide how he was to be tied!

Rob might also tell you that being the one to tie me up last he gets to "even the score" if i was too rough or too gentle. With both of us being subs their is eceptionally good communication about what we both want. While i would prfer being the bottom all the time i know where that has led to the 'top' getting confused in the past. It is hard to let the other person know if they are being too aggressive or too careful. Rob and i shouldn't have that problem...

i ordered Rob to get undressed and then prayed for a plan to pop up in my mind. Mostly what Rob has for gear is rubber straps. Have you ever worn anything like that? Rubber is fairly comfortable, a little sweaty, and streachy. The streach is the trick. See, no matter how much you like to be tied you always try to get free. Rubber lets you streach it, but while its streaching you can't get loose. You relax and you can almost slip free of the rubber - so you streach and pull against it, which means you can't get free because its pulled too tight (by you!) That's part A. Part B is that streaching the rubber straps drains - no, saps - the streinght right out of you! If you struggle enough you end up feeling like silly putty! Have i been there? You betcha'!

i wondered how Rob had used his gear. A sub does not go out and collect that much gear and then just look at it. When i bought my first set of handcuffs it took less than five minutes after i got home before i was wearing them behind my back! i told Rob that i wanted to see him use his gear on himself! If he did a good job then i would reward him, and if he didn't...

First he produced something like bicycle shorts. He wanted to go to the bathroom to put them on, but i made him do it in front of me. He was kinda shy so i made him pose for me a bit. i wanted to see if he was really shy or if he wanted me to make him do it. He liked possing for me - i liked it too. i almost needed my gear to keep me in my place, but this was his show and i let him make me order him through it.

When the posing got us both turned on almost too much i had him show me how he had been tying himself up. He was well practised. He did his ancles and his knees and even a strap around his chest. What i was interested in seeing was how he did his hands (if at all) so that he could free himself later on. He had it all worked out. He wrapped one end of a strap around the corner of his bed (note to people wondering who they know who does bondage - look for either a four-poster bed or a brass bed, dead give aways!) The buckle was free and he made a loop out of a strap and attached it to the buckle, then he put his hands behind him and pulled the strap around his hands nice and tight. He used his fingers to flip the tongue of the buckle on the strap around his wrists so that when he positioned himself just right he could make the buckle lock. All he had to do then was unbuckle himself from the strap on the bed and he was quite at my mercy!

When he was alone i could see that it would be fairly easy to reverse the process in order to free himself.

What does a girl do when a guy ties himself up in front of her - besides lick her lips, i mean? i have to admit that i am kinda green when it comes to being with a guy and he's the one who is tied up. One thing does seem to come natural though, for me, oral sex!

i wasn't ready for that though. First i wanted to rub those shorts! Talk about a bulge! Too much rubbing and he'd pop on me though. i needed something slick and something that would drive him wild - without making him pop. Can we say ice cubes?

i went to his fridge and came back to tease him with the ice. He was ready to go though so i pulled down his shorts and applied the ice directly. One thing you learn in bondage is that when you are doing sex and are really really turned on the brain confuses ANY sensation with pleasure. Fortunately some parts of the body act in more sensable ways. While he liked the sensation of the ice on his skin his member began to draw up. Perfect set up for an ecstacy of agony! Tease until almost done then tone things down a bit, when at a mild simmer then apply more heat!

Fun stuff to know when making gravy or love...

i didn't torture him too much. i knew that what i did by my own hand would soon be done to me... Soon enough i was the one all tied up and tortured very lovingly. He kept me on pins and needles longer than i could have imagined then when he couldn't stand it any longer... we made love! Talk about release! Whew! Both of us were... explosive!