 The Arrest
Part 1-Before the Arrest The Explanation
Part 4-My Side of The Story The Outcome
Part 6-Outcome of the Case
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Part 6 - Outcome of the Case The Trial That Never Happened
It never happened because my sister was still in the hospital. Well, it happened but it was really short because they had no case without her testimony. So, they pretended like they had something and offered me a plea bargain sort of thing where I get no punishment and it gets wiped off my record if I don't get charged again within a year. Basically, they had nothing. They knew, I knew it, and my sister knew it, which is why she wasn't there. So, a few weeks later, I moved back home.
Things have calmed down for the most part. There are still hard feelings on my part and for some reason, she hates my guts even though she is the one who did this. I guess it's just jealousy. She can make more money, get things, do more things, and stuff like that, but she can never be a better person than me. Oh well....here are some of the events that took place after it ended in May of '99 or so:
This mystery sickness that hit her when she was supposed to testify left her in the hospital and doctors were baffled. (NO DUH!-maybe cuz there was nothing wrong, at least not physically). But it was enough to keep her out of school for the rest of the year due to her possibility of fainting. However, right after she graduated high school, the sickness went away and she was miracuously cured. All summer long, she was out and about with no problems. Then, she went to college at Rutgers for like 2 months before, surprise, the sickness came back and forced her out of school again. But, like before, once she was out of school, it disappeared. It was all just a cheap way to get people to feel bad for her just like her tall tales about her brother beating her. But when people question the realness of her illness, she goes into tears or pouts so they feel sorry for her again.
This was rather interesting. One day, she just "happens" to leave her diary on the dining room table. It wasn't under anything...just sitting right there in plain view. So of course I read the thing...I was hoping to find something saying what really happened to her. But it actually said that she hated me for what I did to her, blah, blah, blah. Of course, what did I expect? She's not stupid. She wrote that and then left the thing so people would read it (my mother mainly) and believe her. I mean, who would actually leave their diary, something with all of their secrets and feelings, laying on a table in the most used room of the house? Unless you wanted someone to read it, you wouldn't...my point exactly. She planted it there...when you have to start lying to your diary, it's pretty sad.
I actually wrote a letter to her which I left for her a little after coming home. It basically said that I wanted to know what was going on with everything and why she did this to me. I even said that I loved her and I asked her to tell me the truth and I would forgive her. She never talked about it and acted as though she never got it.
She was pissed because she wanted to go away with her friend and b/f over 4th of July weekend so she wrote my mom a huge letter. Now, being the vengeful person that I am, I've decided to post that wonderful letter and comment on it in red text. Just click HERE to see it!
Of course, I already mentioned that she got bruises after I was at my gram's and stuff. Well, my mom went to visit her at college a couple of months ago and low and behold, she has a bruised eye. She said that she fainted and that's how she got that one. Sure. Can't pin it on me.
Around late March of 2000, my mom went to my aunt's in NY for the weekend. My dad works overnight so it was just me and her. Anyways, her friend comes over with a full case of beer and they start drinking it and listening to very obscene music. It wasn't really that bad but then her friend starts talking to me and I made a joke about her so she got pissed. Now, this chick is in with the wrong people and she tries to make the pain from when her b/f broke up with her go away by drinking, doing drugs, and sleeping around or whatever. She comes over to me while I'm on the computer and starts punching me in the arm repeatedly and asking me if I wanted to fight. I dunno if she was trying to get me in trouble again or what but I just ignored her. I should have called the cops b/c they were drinking underage but I didn't cuz my parents would have probably gotten into trouble. Well, anyways, when my mom came home, she was talking to my sister about it and my sister said it was "one-sided" and that the police wouldn't come unless I called them because "that's something that I would do". Yeah, look who's talking pig vomit.
She couldn't work because of her "sickness" so she had no money for college but she does what she wants to do. So she gets into Rutgers and just assumes my parents are paying for it. I didn't apply to a big school in high school b/c I didn't want to make my parents pay for it and she accuses me of being spoiled. Well anyways, she gets all of this money from my gram, my relatives...etc...but it is specifically for paying college loans and stuff. Guess what? She quit college and used all of the money (and it was alot) to do things with her friends. This girl says I'm spoiled but she has been given tons more than I have and given out much less than I have in my life. She went to Woodstock last year, which would have been cool. But the big thing was that I planned on going to Disney World in Florida and she said "why do you want to go there...there are better places to go than Florida?" A week or two later, she is using her college loan money to go to Florida with her friend from college. She hasn't worked at all for over a year and she manages to go to concerts, movies like every night, etc...and she has the nerve to say I'm spoiled...what a hoot!
Conclusion
Well, on April 26th, 2000, I went to court to close this whole fiasco up. Everything was dismissed so it's over I guess...but who knows with my sister. All I can say in closing is that I really don't know how I feel about my sister. I think I'm a pretty nice person and I'm usually very forgiving. I dunno if I actually hate her or not...I guess only time will tell. I would forgive her if she came clean and told the truth about the whole situation but i really doubt that will ever happen. She would lose friends most likely and other people would never trust her again...she got in too deep and I guess she feels she can't turn back now. The only problem is that she thinks all of her so-called "friends" are always gonna be there for her. Family is something you always have to turn to when you're in trouble but later on in life when I'm the only family she has, I'm not gonna be there for her if she keeps this charade up. I should have took HER to court for slander and defamation of character...and I'm sure the lawyers could have come up with more...LoL. But I'm not her...I don't have that much evil in my heart. Some people may question this being posted on my homepage and stuff but that's life. I absolutely needed to get my side of this story out so people could see the side of it that was never told to them. Maybe it is a little bit of revenge but hey, thats life!
I'm getting my life back together now. I have a g/f and I've got a summer job. Planning on using that money to go to Florida in December. I'm just glad things are going good now. I welcome anybody that likes this or dislikes this, whether it be friends, family, strangers, enemies, sister's friends, or my sister herself, to write something on my opinion board and let's start a discussion about this. That's what the board is for....discussions, arguements, debates....stuff like that. Let's fill it up!
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Her Sickness