MONTHLY STUDY LESSON

Dealing with Pain
You Can't Have One Without the Other
Matthew 11:17

 

Introduction

    It has been said that you can tell a lot about people if you look at what makes them laugh and what makes them cry. Often laughter and tears dwell together. But what about those who can't do either? Is that a sign of a spiritual problem?

    Jesus described the Pharisees as those who could neither dance or cry. This could be a simple description of the Pharisee stubbornness, or it could reveal a spiritual principle we need to recognize.

    We think if we had a pain free life we would be closer to God. Adam and Eve knew no pain, yet they felt God was holding out on them. It was when God came to them in their pain that they renewed fellowship.

 

I. The joy of loving cannot be experienced without the pain of risk.

   A. This is true of marriage.

   B. This is true of parenthood.

   C. This is true of friendship.


II. The joy of accomplishment cannot be experienced without the pain of labor.

   A. Athletes teach us this lesson.

   B. Musicians teach us this lesson.

   C. Laborers teach us this lesson.

   D. Spiritual leaders teach us this lesson.

 

III. The joy of forgiveness cannot be experienced without the pain of contrition.

   A. Some try to deny that there is such a thing as sin.

   B. We need to take sin seriously, but we also need to take grace seriously.

   C. The most wonderful thing that can ever happen to you is to be forgiven.

 

Conclusion

    Jesus experienced this phenomenon. The Bible says, "for the joy that was set before him, Jesus endured the cross." What was that joy? It was the joy of saving you. Remember, sorrow and joy have the same Lord, and he is calling to you today.


Illustrations

    "Ye are not above the Master.
        Will you breathe a sweet refrain?

    Then His grace will be sufficient
        When your heart is pierced with pain."

            -Anonymous

    Renoir, the famous French painter, in his later years suffered badly from arthritis. On one occasion, his friend Matisse asked, "My friend, why do you keep on painting when you are in so much pain?" Renoir replied, "The pain passes, but the beauty remains."


 

OTHER MONTHLY LESSONS

Truth

It Costs to Serve Jesus

The Nation Whose God Is the Lord

Women in Worship

A Day to Remember

Displayed Lesson

Affirmative Living - The Life of Joseph

Prayer Pointers

Trusting in God's Promises

How to Study the Bible

Seeker Issue: Dealing with a Difficult Past

Independence Day: The Nation Whose God is the Lord



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