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To me, friendship means being there for one another, through the good and bad times. Reassuring me, that no matter what I'm going through, there's a light at the end of my tunnel. A good friend will judge your situation accordingly, and not criticize you when your faults are uncovered. We all have our own definition of friendships. I looked at the word "friendship" and noticed that the word "hip" was added to the end of "friends." You've heard the saying, "Joined at the hip." I can think of many friends who I consider connected to me in that way, but not all. Friendships have different stages of relationships. You have close friends, associates and then there's the "once in a while friends." If you're honest with yourself, you will find that you categorize your friendships based on what they produce in your own life. There's nothing wrong with that, just make sure you're giving back in the friendship. Friendships are like partnerships. Trust, honesty, loyalty and faithfulness play an important role in the two. We may not experience the same kind of friendships, but it is possible to have friends who are so faithful and trustworthy, they are closer to you than your own family. I love all my friends and I want them to know how special they are to me. God has placed people in my life who have supported me through some really tough times. Driving hundreds of miles to my mothers funeral, just to be there with me. Holding my hand, in her parked car, as I cried about my problems. Giving money to me, when I was in need. Encouraging me to love myself. Knowing my deepest secrets, and trusting you with every one of them. You get the picture. Friendships are necessary in our lives today. Regardless of your past or painful relationships, you can trust and love a friend without reservations. If you don't have that now, I want to introduce you to someone who I know you can trust. You may not know Jesus as your Lord and Savior, but you can. You can know Him as your Savior and your friend. A confidant and a supporter of your dreams. He will never let you down, and when you're hurt, He's only a cry away. Repeat this prayer. Dear Jesus, I know I have sinned, but I believe you love me, in spite of my sins. Forgive me and cleanse me for everything I've done Lord! I believe you are the Son of God, that You died for me. I now confess You as my Savior and my Lord. In search for true friendships, I know that I have found an honest, true and faithful friend. You gave your life for me, that shows me your great love for me. Thank you Lord, I'm saved! Find a local church that teaches the true Word of God and commit yourself there. God has a plan and purpose for your life. It's time you take hold of the idea of success and move forward. God Bless you! |