An Exchange of Men (and Some Women) Sharing Their Stories

Some of the extracts below were copied, with permission, from the BMMAmerica mailing list. Others were submitted directly to this website.

Thoughts on a Father's Coming Out to His Children, by Amity Buxton

Jennifer advises a husband about how to talk to his wife

Stan, Bill, and Martin talk about the "heaviness" of wishing for intimacy with a man.

Charles, a straight husband, talks about his bisexual wife.

Three husbands talk about staying in the closet for the children's sake.

Rick's Pipe Dream

The Other Guy: Stories of a foursome, a threesome, and a husband with a series of boyfriends

Carl talks about deciding not to be sexual with men

Mark talks about keeping his sexuality hidden from his wife

Hal talks about the pain of coming out to his wife

Frank talks about anonymous sex and depression

Leonard and Will talk about accepting queerness in oneself and others

Bob talks about remaining affectionate and sexual, despite medical problems and aging

Josh talks about how frankness about sexuality has changed his marriage

Sean talks about violence and forgiveness in marriage

Sean and Will talk about being closeted and being honest

Jennifer talks to Philip about how wives feel

Jennifer talks about honesty

Jennifer & Maggie talk about their husbands

Jennifer talks about the labels 'bisexual' and 'gay'

Jennifer and Sarah talk about loving more than one person

 

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