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Thoughts on a Father's Coming Out to His Children, by Amity Buxton
Jennifer advises a husband about how to talk to his wife
Stan, Bill, and Martin talk about the "heaviness" of wishing for intimacy with a man.
Charles, a straight husband, talks about his bisexual wife.
Three husbands talk about staying in the closet for the children's sake.
The Other Guy: Stories of a foursome, a threesome, and a husband with a series of boyfriends
Carl talks about deciding not to be sexual with men
Mark talks about keeping his sexuality hidden from his wife
Hal talks about the pain of coming out to his wife
Frank talks about anonymous sex and depression
Leonard and Will talk about accepting queerness in oneself and others
Bob talks about remaining affectionate and sexual, despite medical problems and aging
Josh talks about how frankness about sexuality has changed his marriage
Sean talks about violence and forgiveness in marriage
Sean and Will talk about being closeted and being honest
Jennifer talks to Philip about how wives feel
Jennifer & Maggie talk about their husbands
Jennifer talks about the labels 'bisexual' and 'gay'
Jennifer and Sarah talk about loving more than one person