I dedicate the first light of Hanukkah to my husband, Avi. In the twelve and a half years that we have been married (and the fourteen years that we have been together), we have seen many good and bad times. Together, we faced the illness and death of loved ones and witnessed the birth of our children. Together, we purchased our first apartment and then lived in it with almost no furniture, until we could afford to buy some. Together, we celebrated first teeth, first steps and first words. Together we mourned the passing of Avi's father.

Marriage is not easy for anyone. We have learned to give and take. We have learned to share and to be supportive. Avi has been my rock in rough times. He has been a shoulder to cry on. He has also added laughter--lots and lots of laughter--to my life. He is my best friend.

Avi, even if I don't often say the words, I love you. I couldn't imagine life without you. You are truly "the light of my life".