SPINNING GLOBE

Hello; welcome to Survivors Across America And beyond

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE BANNER

This page is dedicated in memory of

JACKIE SMARTT BRADY MANNING


Home pageCHAT CITY
HELP NEEDED
SURVIVORS STORIES
SURVIVORS POEMS
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
SUPPORT GROUP
VISITORS COMMENTS
QUESTION FORUM
ON LINE HELP
RAPE & ABUSE
MY FAMILY
GUEST BOOK
LINKS

*I will have important phone numbers available to my children and myself.

*I can tell ___________ and _____________about the violence and ask them to call the police if they hear suspicious noises coming from my home.

*If I leave my home, I can go (list four places): _____________________, ________________, ____________________, or ______________.

*I can leave extra money, car keys, clothes, and copies of documents with ________________.

*I I leave, I will bring __________________________(see checklist next page).

*To ensure safety and independence, I can: Keep change for phone calls with me at all times; open my own savings account; rehearse my escape route with a support person; and review safety plan on _________________(date).

Increasing safety - When the relationship is over

*I can: change the locks; install steel/metal doors, a security system, smoke detectors and an outside lighting system.

*I will inform _____________and ________________ that my partner no longer lives with me and ask them to call the police if s/he is observed near my home or my children.

*I will tell people who take care of my children the names of those who have permission to pick them up. The people who have permission are: __________________, _________________and ______________.

*I can tell _____________at work about my situation and ask _____________to screen my calls.

*I can avoid stores, banks, and _______________that I used when living with my battering partner.

*I can obtain a protective order from _________________. I can keep it on or near me at all times as well as leave a copy with _______________.

*If I feel down and ready to return to a potentially abusive situation, I can call ____________________for support or attend workshops and support groups to gain support and strengthen my relationships with other people.

Phone Numbers

Police____________________

Hotine ___________________

Friends ___________________

Shelter ____________________

Items to Take Checklist

*Identification

*Birth certificates for me and my children

*Social Security cards

*School and medical records

*Money, bankbooks, credit cards

*Keys - house/car/office

*Driver's license and registration

*Medications

*Change of clothes

*Welfare identification

*Passport(s), Green Card(s), work permits

*Divorce papers

*Lease/rental agreement, house deed

*Mortgage payment book, current unpaid bills

*Insurance papers

*Address book

*Pictures, jewelry, items of sentimental value

*Children's favorite toys and/or blankets


 Facts about domestic violence  Myths about domestic violence
 Facts about domestic violence & health  Facts about domestic violence & children
 Saftey plan against domestic violence  Domestic violence hotline phone numbers
 Child support enforcement  Domestic violence warning list
 Facts about domestic violence & teenagers  ------------------------------------------


This document maintained by WEB MAN@ADDR.COM.
Material Copyright © 1998 THE INTERNET MAN

1