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*I will have important phone numbers available to my children and myself. *I can tell ___________ and _____________about the violence and ask them to call the police if they hear suspicious noises coming from my home. *If I leave my home, I can go (list four places): _____________________, ________________, ____________________, or ______________. *I can leave extra money, car keys, clothes, and copies of documents with ________________. *I I leave, I will bring __________________________(see checklist next page). *To ensure safety and independence, I can: Keep change for phone calls with me at all times; open my own savings account; rehearse my escape route with a support person; and review safety plan on _________________(date).
Increasing safety - When the relationship is over*I can: change the locks; install steel/metal doors, a security system, smoke detectors and an outside lighting system. *I will inform _____________and ________________ that my partner no longer lives with me and ask them to call the police if s/he is observed near my home or my children. *I will tell people who take care of my children the names of those who have permission to pick them up. The people who have permission are: __________________, _________________and ______________. *I can tell _____________at work about my situation and ask _____________to screen my calls. *I can avoid stores, banks, and _______________that I used when living with my battering partner. *I can obtain a protective order from _________________. I can keep it on or near me at all times as well as leave a copy with _______________. *If I feel down and ready to return to a potentially abusive situation, I can call ____________________for support or attend workshops and support groups to gain support and strengthen my relationships with other people.
Phone NumbersPolice____________________ Hotine ___________________ Friends ___________________ Shelter ____________________
Items to Take Checklist
*Identification *Birth certificates for me and my children *Social Security cards *School and medical records *Money, bankbooks, credit cards *Keys - house/car/office *Driver's license and registration *Medications *Change of clothes *Welfare identification *Passport(s), Green Card(s), work permits *Divorce papers *Lease/rental agreement, house deed *Mortgage payment book, current unpaid bills *Insurance papers *Address book *Pictures, jewelry, items of sentimental value *Children's favorite toys and/or blankets |
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