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Why Men Rape by Larry Jeffries

I would like to explain and hopefully contribute to your

understanding and ability to work things out.

I want you to know what happened to you is NOT your fault. You

are not too accept responsibility.

You are NOT the blame for his hatefulness and shame.

The person who done this to you is someone who is in much pain

and anger. Someone who has lost complete control of his life.

Through his frustration, hostility and his inability to no longer

cope, you became the direct result. All of his unresolved conflicts

were acted out upon you.

You are NOT the blame for his hatefulness and shame.

I am not getting this information from books or counselors. I am

living experience. I have been guilty of the same pain, anger and

complete lack of control. And unfortunately committed similar

types of acts that has happened to you.

You are NOT the blame for his hatefulness and shame.

NOTHING you could have done,

NOTHING you could have said,

NOTHING you could have changed,

would have made any difference in what

has happened.

You were NOT the one searching for revenge,

You were NOT the one searching for power,

You were NOT the one searching for control,

You ARE NOT the blame for his hatefulness and shame.

As the years pass, I continue to work through this pain, anger and

frustration, my heart saddens with thoughts of you.

I want all the women of the world to know, from the bottom of my

heart, I apologize for having harmed and disgraced you.

IT IS ALL MY FAULT

You ARE NOT the blame for MY

hatefulness and shame.

Why men rape  Protecting our children
 Date rape  Regaining control
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 If you are attacked  Rape
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