| Entrance | Table of Contents | Purpose | Introduction | Daily Actions | Assignment One | Assignment Two, parts 1,2,3 | Assignment Two, part 4 | Assignment Three | Assignment Four, intro | Assignment Four, part 1 |
| Recognizing Abuse | The Abusive Marriage | Assignment Four, part 2 | Assignment Five, introduction | Assignment Five | Assignment Six, intro | Assignment Six | Assignment Seven | Assignment Eight, part 1 | Assignment Eight, part 2 | Assignment Nine, 1 | Assignment Nine, 2 | Assignment Ten, 1 | Assignment Ten, 2 | Assignment Eleven, 1 Assignment Eleven, 2&3
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PARTNERSHIP ~
We are a team, my love. That means we work together and we work for each other. I will always do my part -- and you must do yours. I will not do your part, and mine, you cannot do. It sometimes seems you want me to take on the material responsibilities while you endeavor to produce the final result. You've got it all backwards, my dear. I gave mankind dominion over the earth -- the material -- and I retain dominion over the spiritual. You have the human experience. You are my hands working in the material world and I am your power in the unseen. You must do the physical and mental tasks and leave the results up to me. You must trust me more and more.
FULFILLMENT ~
You ask that I grant your wishes and fulfill your needs. It is my greatest pleasure to do so because I love you with all my being. You are my precious child and I want nothing else but to see you happy and prosperous. I ask that you carry out my wishes for me. If you will concentrate on fulfilling my desires -- in love, helpfulness, service, peace, and kindness to all those I put on your path -- then I can be free to concentrate on fulfilling your heart's desire.
TOGETHERNESS ~
So many turn to me only in times of crisis and despair, forgetting about me when life is smooth. I still rush to answer their calls, but they do not feel my love and presence as one who visits me everyday. Sharing this time alone with me each day is like making deposits in the bank. When a time of great need comes, you will have much to draw on. You are making investments of trust and faith which will afford you strength, comfort, and confidence in turmoil. My love and willingness to help are the same, but our time together changes you.
JOIN LIFE ~
The boats line the shore, just waiting for passengers. You can sit on the deck, admiring their beauty and majesty, in awe of the lovely, powerful sea -- or you can take those steps down the pier and climb aboard. You can set sail on a marvelous adventure, if you just put forth the effort to take that action. Don't let fear hold you back. Take my hand and I will walk with you. I cannot make the adventure happen for you if you just sit and watch. I produce results from your actions. If you take no actions, I have nothing to work with. Remember, faith without works is dead.
BLESSINGS ~
Don't worry about yourself and your unfulfilled dreams. Trust me and let it unfold. You have more than plenty to keep you busy and keep your life full. Spend time with your children -- they'll be grown and on their own before you know it. Cherish this time and be with them as much as possible. I realize there's not enough time in the day to get all your work done, spend time alone with me, and focus your attention on your children, but put your priorities in order. What's really the most important? I love you, my lady.
ETERNAL YOUTH ~
Don't think of yourself as old and unattractive. Age and appearance make no difference in my kingdom. You put limits on everything, by age, time, events, as if I have no power to over-come these illusions of space-time. You are just as young and lovely and vibrant as ever. I love you, my daughter. Keep smiling and keep being creative. Don't get discouraged. Remember, you will attract into your life whatever you pour forth. Stay positive in faith. Cast all worry out of your pretty little head and enjoy life. Take time for your children. They need you more than you know. They are my special gifts to you. Love them, adore them, and in loving them, take time to feel the love I feel for you.
TAKING CARE OF BUSINESS ~
Let me remind you that your life is not your business. If you try to make it be your business, you're self-absorbed. Your life is MY business and I will tend to it, as long as you stay out of the way. You go on being about my business of service and love. But anytime you think you can do a better job than I can with your life, I'll step aside and hand you the reigns. Life will flow more smoothly if you concentrate on being an expression of my comfort, encouragement, and cheer and let me tend to all your needs. I love you.
SPIRITUAL CONDITION ~
Your spiritual condition is your responsibility, not mine. I can't force you to be my friend. If you want to enjoy and depend on intimacy with me, you must take care of your spiritual health every day. This will keep you strong and enhance your endurance and stamina for times of adversity. Stay close to me each day -- think of me more, meditate more, stop in between activities to talk to me awhile. All I ask is that you include me in all you do -- let me be a part of your life. I yearn to spend every moment with you, to help you, encourage and inspire you, but I will not interfere. I will only join when I am invited. I long for you to love me as I love you.
A CALM APPROACH ~
My dear, sweet lady -- persevere, but struggle no more. Walk forward, steady and persistent, yet calm and relaxed. I am with you, beside you all the way. My love fills you and surrounds you. I will be a part of anything you invite me to be. I love being with you, watching you and helping you. Together we will achieve your aspirations. Don't slack up. Don't lock yourself in a closet and wait for me to stick a hot dog through the key hole. Keep busy pursuing your goals or we'll not get it done. I have given you many creative gifts to reach others and I will bless these gifts with prosperity, to enrich the lives of many. You are so special, my dear. I love you.
REACH OUT ~
You feel a void in your life right now, but I will fill that up. Turn to me for direction each step along the way and I will guide you in a day full of joy and purpose. Purpose and creativity and accomplishment are among your personal needs. I will inspire you and bless all your efforts. Trust me. I am with you and I won't forsake you. Take care of yourself and do what you need to do for your well-being. Stop trying to handle things alone. I am here for you through countless extensions -- many, many people who help, serve, and heal. Don't isolate yourself anymore. Reach out and my hand will be there to hold and support you.
IN THE PRESENT ~
The Light is within you. Open yourself up to let it shine. I am your Light, Love, Life, and Joy. Relax, smile, and laugh. Be kind, be gentle, be understanding. Always, always take time to be kind. Laugh often, love much, trust always. And remember not to take yourself too seriously. I love you so very, very much. Seek my guidance and intuition often. I will reveal what you need to know each day. Don't entertain thoughts of what if's and maybe's. Be here today and express me where you are.
UNAFRAID ~
Go forward unafraid. Do not fret that you cannot see the path ahead. Each step is illuminated as you go. Walk and trust. Often, life's circumstances seem shrouded in mystery, yet the more you let me into your life, the more understanding you will gain. The more spiritually-minded you become, the more life will make sense and the less of a mystery it will be to you. During the dark night, mist and fog form over the rivers, seeming to hide everything beneath it. As the sun rises and focuses its warmth upon the earth, the fog dissipates, making the beauty of creation crystal clear. Invite me into your day and the fog which hangs over areas of life will evaporate at my presence and you will behold the beauty.
WAIT FOR ME ~
Just as your children sometimes feel left out and cry, "Wait for me!" I, too, long for your attention. Sometimes you get so busy moving quickly through the day that you forget to include me. Those are the times I cry out to you, "Wait for me." Don't get ahead of me -- walk with me. I ask that you stop, put all activities on hold, and wait for me. Take time to pray -- to invite me into your day -- and then listen for my guidance and encouragement. Wait for me.
HEAVENLY TEARS ~
Sometimes you just need to cry. It's a great release of tension and emotion. It cleanses the soul and the body. It is a necessary part of grieving. Crying is as good for you as laughter, when used in a positive manner. Crying can be detrimental, just as laughing can be when twisted and warped. You don't have to be perfectly fine all the time, my dear. Sometimes you need to break down and cry to release all your fears, angers, and sadness. There is healing in that release and a freshness which follows. I love you, sweet lady. You really are beautiful and loveable. There is much to love about you.
ACHIEVEMENT ~
Press on towards the mark. Success rarely comes over night, my lady. To achieve your dreams and goals requires diligence, practice, and persistence. The more you persevere, the more confidence you gain, the sooner this will unfold. Just don't give up and don't slack up. Yes, I could produce instant results for you without any effort on your part, but how could you feel good about yourself? What would you learn? When your children come to you for help with homework, it would be easy for you just to do the work and be done with it. Your children might be happy that you saved them the time and effort, but what would they learn? How would they acquire
confidence and self-esteem? I will surely bless your efforts with success, but there is much for you to learn in the process. You are my creation -- believe in yourself as you believe in me. I love you, sweet girl.